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What are YOU reading to celebrate Banned Books week? 09/29/2010
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  It's time to celebrate freedom!  The freedom to lose yourself in a good book.  The freedom to think a new thought, to ponder a new idea.  The freedom to see life as someone else does, to temporarily live inside someone else's mind, seeing life from their point of view.  How do you do all of that?  READING!
  And as they have done for years, the American Library Association (ALA) is encouraging us to consider the various books that have been challenged, if not outright banned...from public schools, from public libraries.  See that's where I have a problem.  I don't mind if you don't want your child to read a particular book, and believe me, most schools these days are quick to offer an alternative read to any student whose parent objects.  What I have a problem with is when you try to tell me that my child can't read that book either!  And yes, I know, I've read the argument that nothing is to stop my child from reading it at home...just like nothing is to stop my child from sharing it with your child after school, when they are hanging out together, and the subject comes up...and it will.
  But public schools and libraries are supposed to be a place of learning...of opening minds, thinking new thoughts, seeing the world in a new way.  When the only ideas students are allowed to think in school are familiar ones, where is the education?  Instead that is inculcation, the injecting of someone's morals into that child, with no discussion allowed as to whether or not that child agrees.
  So as an English teacher, and as an independent thinker, I strongly encourage you to pick up a banned book and enjoy being a rebel!  There's still a few days left in the official Banned Books week, but you can read them anytime and enjoy them. 
  The AARP published a list of the 50 books most objected to, including To Kill a Mockingbird, Catcher in the Rye, and the Harry Potter stories, along with the Twilight series.  Some are well-written and considered classics.  Some are poorly-written and will be forgotten in a few years' time, when the initial popularity has worn thin.  But all have ideas that someone considers dangerous for young people to contemplate.  Honestly?  With all the media stimulation that today's young people are exposed to, do you really feel that a well-written book that presents adult content in a way that allows them to imagine it, rather than be bombarded with images that might be truly disturbing, is so hazardous? (Have your kids seen Saw?)
  BTW, my teen-aged daughter found the Twilight books to be rather dull, but she loves the movies because of the abs on the werewolves!  Okay, at least as her mother who is also an erotic romance writer, we can agree on something!
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Follow your passion or the money? 09/20/2010
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So I'm going to be subbing this week, as well as starting a second P/T job in addition to my writing.  There just aren't enough hours in the day!
But when teens ask me how to pick a major, with the idea of a future job, I never know what to tell them any more than I know how to advise my own 4 young adults. 
Do I tell them to pick something that the latest research suggests might be hiring in the near future, and that will pay a decent wage?  If you make enough "bread money" will it kill the pain of having to spend one third of your day doing something you may find boring or distasteful? 
Or do I tell them to follow your passion and hope the money will follow?  What do you think?
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Can you celebrate Labor Day if you are unemployed? 09/06/2010
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So here I am, the husband and kids are all thrilled to NOT be working today.  Yet the district I sub for doesn't start until tomorrow, and last year I only got called to sub one day in September.  So I'm not quite as happy to be home today as they all are.
Did you stay home with your kids when they were young?  I did.  I always worked at part-time retail jobs, but nothing career-oriented.  Eight years ago when they were all in higher grades, I took some classes in education, got re-certified, and started subbing, since I had been told that was how to get back into teaching.  Uh, no, it's not.  Districts hire teachers so young the ink on their degrees hasn't dried yet...but they are invariably related to someone...nepotism rules!
I sometimes wish I had kept my full-time marketing job and put the kids in daycare.  At least then I would be able to help put them through college.  Now I find myself competing with high school students for retail jobs that pay me the same money the kids make, yet I have a college degree and years of experience.  When students ask me what they should think of majoring in once they get to college, I tell them all to choose to either: follow their hearts and hope they can make a living at it, or choose a major based on it being a proven money-maker, if there is such a thing anymore.  But I tell all of the girls to stay employed and not stay home with their kids!
That way they will be able to enjoy spending Labor Day at home!
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